Masturbation is a sexy, sexy thing. So sexy, in fact, that sometimes you might want to involve partner(s).
In this stream, Afrosexology founders Dalychia and Rafaella teach us how to put on a masturbation show.
So, what exactly is a masturbation show? It’s when you masturbate with your partner(s), or record stream of yourself masturbating for others’ viewing pleasure. You can involve mutual masturbation where you masturbate yourself and your partner or vise versa.
“It's about you being in tune with your body, masturbating, bringing yourself the most pleasure, and inviting someone to be a part of that experience to either watch, participate, support, or to admire and worship you as you please yourself,” say Afrosexology.
It’s also a great way to be viewed confidently by your partner(s), and show them what works for you. There are all different ways to masturbate and techniques to try. Understanding the anatomy of the vulva and penis can be the first step to masturbating most effectively.
To create a good show, you can incorporate toys, props, fingers, etc. to stimulate your erogenous zones. Afrosexology suggests, for example, caressing your neck, pulling on your chest, slapping or grabbing your ass, changing positions, involving temperature play, mirrors, feathers, blindfolds, roleplaying with costumes and characters — anything fun to increase your own sensations while making it a fun visual experience for viewers.
If you have concerns about how you look while masturbating or feel weird about putting on a show, remember that sex can be awkward at times and it’s okay to laugh. “No matter what, if you're having a good time, your partner's going to enjoy watching you bring yourself pleasure,” Afrosexology say.
So, if you thought masturbation was a strictly private experience, think again. Making masturbation a show is a great way to explore yourself and your partner(s).