Let's Talk Blowjob Tips

If you want to give the best blowjob ever, here are a few things you might want to know.

Let's Talk Blowjob Tips

Let's Talk Blowjob Tips

Let's Talk Blowjob Tips

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Whether you’ve never given a blowjob, you want to get better at it, or you’re already a pro, there are always more things to learn about giving head. 

In this stream, sex and relationship coach and educator Colby Marie Z explains how to give the best blowjob ever

To make a blowjob a memorable experience, Colby Marie Z suggests engaging the balls for a bit of novelty, but really paying attention to the head of the penis, called the glands. This part will be exposed when the penis is erect, regardless of if the penis is circumcised or uncircumcised. 

Give extra love to the frenulum, the area where the shaft meets the head of the penis. Much like the clitoris, this area is highly concentrated with nerve-endings that act as pleasure receptors. You can also try touching the perineum — the space between the balls and anus — also known as the taint or gooch. Colby Marie Z explains that this part can be highly sensitive as it externally stimulates the prostate, which some people call the male G spot. 

As with any sex act, always make sure to communicate with your partner to find out what’s working or not working for them. Pay attention to what you like about giving head, too. After all, a bj doesn’t just have to be about pleasuring the receiver. The best blowjobs are often ones where both partners are enjoying themselves equally.

Colby Marie Z

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Colby Marie Z is a sex & relationship coach, educator, speaker and blogger based out of Providence, RI. She is a doctoral candidate in human sexuality, an avid (slash obnoxious) football fan, and has been proudly talking about sexual pleasure, confidence, and satisfaction for 10+ years. She is the founder of Sex, Love & All the Feels, where she strives to provide accurate, honest and factual sex and relationship info …with a dash of sass.

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