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December 19, 2019

32 Other Ways To Sext “I’m So Horny” Without Using Those Three Words

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Jamie LeClaire
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December 19, 2019
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Consensual sexting can be so much fun, but certain dirty talk words and phrases can get stale fast if they are used repeatedly.That’s why you might not want to sext “I’m soooo horny” if you’ve already said that same phrase a cajillion times before. There are way more illustrative ways to communicate feeling horny that are sure to get your partner hot and bothered. So, whether you’re sexting someone for the first time, or you’re years into a relationship, try to keep your dirty talk fresh and exciting by finding alternative ways to express your horniness.

Here are 32 other words or phrases for “I’m so horny.”

Tell them WHY they make you horny.

1. I’m so turned on right now thinking about how you good you made me feel last night/the other night.

2. I’m sitting at my desk right now just, getting worked up thinking about how you ate/fucked/licked/sucked/etc my genital/body part.

3. I keep thinking about the way you look at me as you touch yourself. 

4. I can’t stop thinking about you sitting on my face.

5. Can't sleep. I just keep imagining all the naughty things we could be doing to each other if you were here.

Tell them what you’re excited to do with them

1. I’m imagining how good it’s going to feel when I can finally touch your ______.

2. I can’t wait until I’m there, peeling off your clothes and kissing your body. 

3. I can’t wait to bury my face between your thighs and taste you.

4. Thinking about all the ways I want to make you come is making me so hard/wet/turned on/etc. 

If you’re responding to a sexy photo/video…

1. You’re getting me all riled up/ you get me so worked up.

2. You’re so sexy, I can’t stop watching!

3. The way you look at the camera has me so turned on right now.

4. I keep looking at the insanely hot photos you sent me, I’m so hypnotized/dickmatized.

Don’t be afraid to use emojis.

But also don’t over-rely on them! They are a fun addition to a sexy text, and can further convey the tone you’re trying to use. Here’s a quick breakdown with some examples:

1. 😉 = Classic

Still thinking about spreading your legs and making you beg for me to ______ you 😉

2. 😏 = Suggestive

I still taste you in my mouth 😏

3. 😜 = Playful or kinky

I can’t wait for you to make me beg for it tonight 😜

4. 😍 = Lustful

Can’t stop looking at those photos you took for me the other day 😍

5. 😛 = Ready to eat

I can’t wait to taste you from your ____ to your ______ 😛

6. 🤤 = Mesmerized; seriously turned on!

I keep thinking about how you look bent over on the bed, gazing back at me 🤤

Try using a sexy, suggestive GIF to start the conversation or respond.

Same rule for emoji’s goes for GIFs too! They can enhance your sexting game, or serve as a response when you’re not sure what else to say, but over-relying on them can hinder your sexting game. If you’re sending a GIF while sexting, don’t be afraid to add a sexy message along with it to personalize it!

These GIFs are perfect for responding to a ridiculously hot sext:

If you’re looking for something simple and straight to the point, try these:

Now, before you go out and spread your little sexting wings, there are a few things you should keep in mind:

1. Use language for your partner’s genitals that they’ve established is A-OK! Wait for your partner to refer to their own genitals, and take their lead.

2. Don’t be afraid to use humor to keep things light. It can definitely help make sexting feel like a more comfortable and lower-stakes environment. 

3. Avoid rushed, misspelled or abbreviated responses. If you aren’t available or aren’t in the mood when you receive a text to initiate sexting, just be upfront about it!

Now go and get creative with your horniness!

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Jamie J. LeClaire (they/them) is a sexuality educator, freelance writer, and consultant. Their work focuses on the intersections of pleasure-positive sexual health, queer & transgender/gender-nonconforming identity, body politics, and social justice. You can find more of their work at their website, and follow them on Instagram & Twitter.

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