Blowjobs can be awesome. They provide a remarkable opportunity for connection with a lover, allow for curiosity and exploration for The Giver, and have excellent orgasm potential for The Receiver. Sometimes though, giving blowjobs can be hard work! Jaw pain, gagging, taste, and endurance are common challenges for blowjob Givers. Check out the list of products and sex toys below that can make BJs easier and more enjoyable for The Giver, and can take pleasure to the next level for The Receiver.
Even if you’re a seasoned pro at giving head, there’s always room for improvement! Introducing sex toys into your blowjob routine can add novelty, excitement, and extra stimulation.
Even if you’re a seasoned pro at giving head, there’s always room for improvement! Introducing sex toys into your blowjob routine can add novelty, excitement, and extra stimulation. If you want to make blowjobs more fun and electrifying than you ever imagined, try incorporating one or more of these sexy products to your next blowjob experience.
Use Flavored Lube
Don’t doubt the pleasure enhancing potential of simply adding a few drops of a tasty lube like Sliquid Swirl to the penis before going to town. Not only does the lube add an appealing flavor, the added slickness allows the mouth to glide over the shaft of the penis much more smoothly, and that wetness won’t dry out as quickly as saliva.
A helpful way to keep your jaw from getting too tired during a blowjob is to use your hands to stimulate the penis and testicles as well, and focus your mouth on just the head of the penis. Lube can also make it easier to twirl and swirl your hands around the cock and to massage the balls.
Play With A Vibrating Cock Ring
Worn either at the base of the penis or behind the testicles, vibrating cock rings can deliver the benefits of a cock ring—larger, harder erections and added stamina—while also providing additional stimulation to the genitals. The consistent vibration can take some pressure off The Giver, who can take breaks knowing that their partner is still experiencing pleasurable stimulation.
Try A Stroker Sleeve
Stroker sleeves are flexible tubes designed to enclose the penis and provide added sensation through a textured inside. Typically strokers are used for hand jobs - either solo or with a partner, but strokers that are open at both ends can also be a great blowjob addition.
Not only does the lube add an appealing flavor, the added slickness allows the mouth to glide over the shaft of the penis much more smoothly, and that wetness won’t dry out as quickly as saliva.
Used with lube (like the flavored variety mentioned above) and worn on the shaft of the penis, the texture inside of the sleeve provides added sensation for the wearer. By sticking the head of the cock through the sleeve, The Giver can use their lips and tongue to stimulate the tip while the shaft is stimulated by the stroker.
Pro tip: if you hold one end of the sleeve at the base of the penis and squeeze the tip-end closed over the penis, you can pull the sleeve to create a vacuum and sucking sensation on the cock. Jaw tired? No worries! Let the stroker take over for a few minutes while you recharge!
Throw A Penis Vibrator Into The Mix
If your jaw is getting tired, or if you just want to mix it up, try bringing in a penis vibrator like the Manta, or the Pulse. While you’re using your lips and tongue on the head of the penis, a vibrator can provide delicious sensations to the shaft. This way The Receiver is getting attention to their whole penis, but for The Giver it’s less work than attending to the whole penis with only their mouth.
Add A Butt Plug
The booty is often neglected during blowjobs, which is a shame because it’s got so much pleasure potential! The opening of the anus has lots of nerve endings that can feel really good when touched. Additionally, wearing a butt plug during a blowjob can potentially make orgasms stronger and more intense! A butt plug with a flat base allows The Receiver to comfortably sit or lay down during sex. Feeling extra frisky? A vibrating butt plug takes stimulation to the max!
Wearing a butt plug during a blowjob can potentially make orgasms stronger and more intense!
Including any of these toys into your blowjob repertoire is sure to intensify all the pleasurable sensations, and may even make it feel like less of a “job.” Adding all of these to your sexy toy box means that no two blowjobs will ever be the same—every BJ can be a new, exciting adventure!