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January 30, 2023

16 Best Sex Toys For Men

Explore our favorite sex toys for penises and prostates to find something you love.
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Published on
January 30, 2023
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There are so many sex toys for men and penis owners out there that can stimulate the prostate, offer different modes of stimulation, and help induce and maintain erections. While exciting, finding what works for you can take time and research. To help, we’ve narrowed the options to what we consider the best sex toys for men and penis owners.

How we chose the best sex toys for men 

To find the best sex toys for men, we first chose popular categories and then curated products we considered best in each category. We then narrowed it down by judging each sex toys against a set of factors including performance, innovative tech, price, body safe materials, stimulation type, star ratings, reviews, and more. The products that were rated highest won a spot on our best list. 

➡ To learn more about how we rate and review products, read our methodology.

1. Editor’s pick

Lelo Hugo
4.6
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436
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
248.00

Lelo’s Hugo is a vibrating prostate massager suitable for both partner and solo play. Along with eight intensity levels, Hugo features two powerful motors located in the base and tip of the toy. It’s also built with SenseMotion technology, which allows you to control vibrations by moving the remote, rather than pressing buttons. SenseMotion makes Hugo’s vibrations easy to adjust, and the toy’s ultra-soft design makes for a comfortable grip.

Benefits
Strong prostate stimulation + 8 intensity levels
Remote controlled with SenseMotion technology
Comes with a satin storage pouch
Drawbacks
A bit pricey, but high-end quality
Not very adjustable
Can be loud
While the toy is rechargeable, the remote needs batteries
The nuts and bolts
  • 8 intensity levels
  • Whisper quiet
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe materials: silicone, ABS plastic
  • Compatible with water-based lube

Why we chose it: We picked Lelo’s Hugo as our overall favorite sex toy for men and penis owners because of its range of vibration, innovative tech features, and comfortable design. While it offers strong prostate stimulation, it still maintains whisper-quiet volume, and its eight modes of vibration make it an experience of pleasurable exploration. Using this toy you can aim to have a strong prostate orgasm, or try for a blended orgasm by penetrating yourself with the toy for prostate stimulation while stroking your penis.

2. Best anal beads

B-Vibe Triplet Anal Beads
4.7
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13
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No items found.
$
145.00

B-Vibe’s Triplet Plug, which can be used for solo and partner play, comes with two powerful motors that provide six speeds and 15 patterns of vibration. It works to stimulate the pleasure receptors and nerve endings in the anal canal, and you can customize and control the sensations using the toy’s wireless remote. We recommend using this product, as well as all anal products, with water-based lube.

Benefits
A range of vibration modes
Has two motors on the second and third beads
Comes with a one-touch wireless remote
Comes with a durable storage case
Drawbacks
A bit pricey, but high-end quality
Not waterproof, only splashproof
The nuts and bolts
  • 6 intensity levels
  • 15 vibration patterns
  • Splashproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe silicone and plastic material
  • Water-based lube compatible

Why we chose it: B-Vibe’s Triplet is an ultra-soft and luxurious set of anal beads, and it’s equipped with two powerful motors. Because it features six speed and 15 vibration patterns, it offers a wide variety of options for unique sensations — perfect for those exploring anal play for the first time. It’s one-touch, wireless remote also adds ease and simplicity to the experience.

3. Best lube

Pjur Back Door Comfort Anal Glide 3.4oz
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No items found.
$
20.00

Designed to add friction-free slipperiness to all types of play, Back Door is a silicone-based lube that moisturizes and lubricates soon-to-be penetrated areas. It’s clean, odorless, and taste-free, and unlike many silicone-based lubes, it’s relatively easy to wash off. Plus the addition of Hyaluronan and jojoba oil makes it well-suited for long usage.

Benefits
Not sticky and dermatologically-tested formula
Jojoba oil makes it extra slippery and long-lasting
Drawbacks
Might be incompatible with some silicone toys
The nuts and bolts
  • Dermatologically tested
  • Perfume-free
  • 3.4fl.oz
  • ‎6 x 5 x 4 inches

Why we chose it: Lube is absolutely essential for anal play because the anus is not self-lubricating. If you’re looking to explore different kinds of anal sex, Pjur Back Door Comfort Anal Glide is a solid option. It’s made with super slippery ingredients — including jojoba oil — which makes it suitable for more experienced users who like it rough. Because it’s silicone-based, it’s long-lasting and ideal for long term use. However, it’s important to check if your toy is compatible with silicone-based lube.

4. Best for hands-free use

Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Essential
3.5
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251
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
108.00

Designed for male masturbation, Hot Octopuss’ Pulse Solo Essential offers versatility and strong vibration. It can be used for both flaccid and erect penises, and its six vibration settings allow for users to experiment with various sensations. Pulse Solo Essential is designed with PulsePlate Technology to create a completely hands-free experience, and you can control the toy through the FeelConnect app — perfect for long-distance play.

Benefits
Long-distance capable through app
Flexible and fits most sizes
Hands-free experience
Comes with a satin storage pouch
Drawbacks
FeelConnect app can be finicky
The nuts and bolts
  • 5 vibration modes
  • Waterproof
  • Body-safe materials: ABS Plastic and silicone
  • Compatible with water-based lube
  • 4.6 x 2.6 x 2.8 in

Why we chose it: Pulse Solo Essential is perfect for a penis owner who wants to optimize any masturbation experience. Its vibrations give off heavenly pulsations to the frenulum, and it can be used whether your penis is soft or hard. If you’re playing with a partner, the Pulse Solo Essential can also be incorporated into foreplay, elevating the experience to a whole other level. Using the FeelConnect app, let your partner take the reins and control the sensations you feel without ever touching you directly.

5. Best cock ring

Lelo Tor 2
4.4
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412
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
157.00

Lelo’s TOR 2 is a vibrating cock ring that’s great for partner play. This ring can intensify pleasure for both partners, and it offers various forms of rumbly stimulation. TOR 2 can help penis owners last longer and produce stronger erections, and when pressed on the clitoris, it offers vibrating stimulation. Because of its stretchy, body-safe material, TOR 2 fits all sizes.

Benefits
Easy to control
Flexible material that fits penises of any size
Comes with a silky storage pouch
Drawbacks
A bit pricey, but high-end quality
Relatively short battery life
The nuts and bolts
  • 6 intensity levels
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe silicone material
  • Water-based lube compatible

Why we chose it: If you’re wanting a smooth, powerful vibrating C-ring, look no further. Tor 2 offers a super comfortable, customizable experience, and it allows users to explore a wide variety of sensations, from soft rumbles to intense vibration. Whether you’re new to cock rings or just want to try something different, Lelo Tor makes for a great option. It’s flexible, but still manages to sturdily grip onto most penis sizes.

6. Best sex furniture

Liberator Wedge
4.6
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749
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
157.00

Filled with high-density foam, Liberator Wedge adds support and comfort to all types of play — from bondage to oral sex to anal sex, and everything in between. Its super-soft material and slope-like design makes it easy to experiment with new positions, as well as deepen angles of penetration. While its considered sex furniture, it can also be used as a supportive pillow to ease general discomfort.

Benefits
Soft but sturdy
Comes in 3 sizes: short, regular, and tall
Removable and washable covers
Drawbacks
A bit pricey, but high-quality
Takes up quite a bit of space, not travel-friendly
The nuts and bolts
  • Machine washable
  • Short: 32″ x 24″ x 10″
  • Regular: 34″ x 24″ x 12″
  • Tall – 36″ x 24″ x 14″

Why we chose it: When it comes to sex furniture, the Liberator Wedge is highly reviewed for a reason. It looks like any ordinary wedge pillow, making it discreet enough that you could keep it in the house without too much worry about it being seen. But while it appears to be a run-of-the-mill pillow, it’s so much more than that. It’s angled in such a way that it can support you and your partner as you try any number of sex positions. It's high-quality, sturdy, and has a foam interior, which makes it very comfortable to use and lean on. Introduce the Liberator Wedge into partnered play and achieve sex positions that were previously too hard or uncomfortable to try.

7. Best penis stroker

We-Vibe Arcwave Ion
4.0
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107
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
199.00

Designed with Pleasure Air Technology, We-Vibe’s Arcwave Ion is a stroker masturbation toy for penis owners. Through contact-less airwaves, it targets the ultra-sensitive Pacinian receptors in the frenulum, which allows for intense, pleasurable sensations. It even comes with a Smart Silence feature that turns off the product as soon as there is no skin contact. ArcWave’s advanced features make it well-suited for penis owners who want an easy-to-clean, high-tech stroker toy.

Benefits
Built-in pleasure air technology
Easy to clean with its twist-to-open feature and CleanTech silicone
2-year warranty
Drawbacks
A bit pricey, but high-end quality
Can be noisy
The nuts and bolts
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe materials: CleanTech silicone, Latex-free
  • 6.0 x 2.1 x 3.3 in

Why we chose it: ArcWave Ion is perfect for anyone who wants a high-tech stroker. Unlike other strokers, it's made with We-Vibe’s patented Pleasure Air Technology, which allows for a whole new masturbating experience. The tech emits pleasurable waves of air pressure, creating sensations of gentle suction. It's also sleek with CleanTech silicone material that makes it easy to clean and very flexible.

8. Best for under $100

Tenga Egg 6 Pack
4.2
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6
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No items found.
$
40.00

Tenga Eggs are packaged in egg-shaped shells that contain a packet of lube and a stretchable “stimulator.” This set contains different styled EGGs — all of which have different ribbing designs and sensations. They are “single use,” but if properly cleaned, they can be used up to five times.

Benefits
Affordable
Very travel-friendly
Variety of sensations and textures
Drawbacks
Limited amount of uses
The nuts and bolts
  • Body-safe materials: thermoplastic elastomer
  • 1.76 ounces
  • 2.4 x 1.9 x 1.9 in

Why we chose it: The stretchability of the stimulator makes for a variety of uses (stroking, twisting, pushing it down), and unlike many other sex toys, they are disposable and very affordable. You don’t have to sacrifice pleasure for price here either. They’re easy to use, and while they may look small at first glance, TENGA EGGs are stretchable and can fit over most penis sizes (up to 7.8 inches erect).

9. Best vibrator for prostates

Lelo Billy 2
4.4
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107
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
199.00

Ergonomically designed, Lelo’s Billy 2 is a prostate massager sculpted for deep stimulation. It features a four-button interface that offers easy control, and its eight vibration modes offer room for exploration and experimentation. Because it’s made of extra-soft silicone, Billy 2 also feels comfortable and pleasant to hold.

Benefits
Targeted prostate stimulation + 8 intensity levels
Super silky feel
Drawbacks
Comes in only two colors
The nuts and bolts
  • 8 intensity levels
  • Whisper quiet
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe materials: silicone, ABS plastic
  • Water-based lube compatible
  • 6.9 x 1.4 x 1.1 in

Why we chose it: Billy 2 is an ideal toy for penis owners who want to explore vibrating prostate stimulation. It gives off strong, pleasurable pressure, and it’s sturdy and well-built, allowing for years of usage. It’s also quite versatile, making it easy for users to explore a variety of sensations, pressures, and vibrations. If you’ve never had a prostate orgasm, this is the toy to try. The shape of it is specifically designed to reach the prostate, and its vibration might just put you over the edge.

10. Best for beginners' anal play

B-Vibe Anal Massage & Education Set
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No items found.
$
231.00

Curated with a variety of sex toys, b-Vibe x Le Wand Anal Massage & Education Set allows users to experiment with different sensations, including G-spot and prostate stimulation. It includes the vibrator Le Wand Petite, the Le Wand Petite Curve Attachment, and the b-Vibe Snug Plug 2, a comfortable, weighted butt plug. In addition to the three pleasure products, this comprehensive kit also comes with a lubricant applicator, a clean up towel, a storage bag, a classic enema, finger condoms, and how-to guides to help users of all entry levels.

Benefits
G-spot and prostate stimulation
Accessible for beginners
Includes accessories and how-to guides
Drawbacks
Not waterproof, only splashproof
The nuts and bolts
  • Anal and vaginal stimulation
  • 6 intensity modes
  • Splashproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe materials: silicone
  • Comes with 1-year warranty

Why we chose it: This set gives beginners an approachable way to learn the ins and outs of anal play. It comes with a variety of accessories and educational resources so that you don’t have to watch a bunch of YouTube videos to learn how to use the products. The Snug Plug 2 is an ideal size for anal newbies and intermediate users, and the Le Wand Petite allows for vibration exploration during play. You can also incorporate these toys into partnered play, especially the Le Wand Petite Curve, which stimulates both the prostate and the G-spot.

11. Best prostate massager

Aneros Vice 2
4.1
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20
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
204.00

Designed to stimulate the prostate, Aneros’ Vice 2 is a sophisticated remote-controlled vibrator. It comes with two powerful motors, offering 18 vibration patterns and four intensity levels, and you can use it completely hands-free. Vice 2 is well-suited for more experienced users who want a strong mix of vibration and pressure to the prostate.

Benefits
Comes with a wireless remote for easy control
Allows for hands-free use
Comes with 2-year warranty
Drawbacks
Not the best toy for beginners
Splashproof, not waterproof
The nuts and bolts
  • 4 intensity levels
  • Splashproof
  • Body-safe materials: silicone and ABS plastic
  • 4.9 ounces (approx. weight of a baseball)
  • 4.8 x 1.3 in

Why we chose it: We love the Vice 2’s bulbous shape and the powerful sensation it creates. While it’s bendable upon touch, it’s sturdy when inserted, and you don’t have to worry about it moving around in your anal canal. Its seamless texture, in addition to the numerous sensation patterns it offers, also feels extremely luxurious. When it comes to prostate massagers, this one checks the boxes and many reviewers tout the toy’s ability to give them intense pleasure and powerful prostate orgasms.

12. Best for simulating penetrative sex or blow jobs

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Designed for on-the-go pleasure, Fleshlight’s Flight Pilot is a travel-friendly masturbator that creates a blowjob-like sucking sensation. The three sleeve options offer a tight, comfortable fit for most penis sizes, and you can even adjust the base of the toy to experiment with different suction strengths. Flight Pilot feels surprisingly lifelike, mainly because of its SuperSkin material which duplicates the look and feel of human skin, and it’s a great option for penis owners who want to replicate the experience of penetrative intercourse.

Benefits
Discreet and travel-friendly
Adjustable base for suction control
SuperSkin allows for realistic feel
Drawbacks
Not the best for beginners
Limited sleeve options
The nuts and bolts
  • Waterproof
  • 3 sleeve options
  • Body-safe materials: patented, SuperSkin and soft plastic
  • Compatible with water-based lube
  • 1.05 pounds
  • 8 x 3.5 x 3.5 in

Why we chose it: If you’re looking for a toy that’ll make you feel like you’re actually getting a blow job or having penetrative sex, the Flight Pilot is worth a try. Because the Flight Pilot doesn’t actually look like a fleshlight (it closely resembles a flashlight), it makes for a subtle, travel-friendly masturbator. It’s easy to clean, and especially when compared with other models, the Flight Pilot is particularly small and light. The smaller size (6”) may make it more challenging for larger penises to insert, but you’ll be able to gauge the fit if you go in slowly. We also love the Flight Pilot’s detailing. The intricate textures, which include realistic bumps and ridges, make for an intense and enjoyable sexual experience.

13. Best dildo

Vixen Creations Mustang
4.4
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123
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
155.00

The Vixen Mustang is a dildo designed for penetration. It realistically resembles a penis with its vein feature and foreskin detailing. It’s made from high-quality silicone which keeps the outer layer squishy and the inner core firm. You can try the dildo in various colors and sizes, and all styles can be used vaginally or anally and provide G-spot and prostate stimulation.

Benefits
Prostate + G-spot stimulation
Hyper-realistic feel
Super soft exterior
Drawbacks
A bit pricey but a high quality product
The nuts and bolts
  • Waterproof
  • Body-safe materials: platinum silicone
  • Harness compatible
  • 4.8 ounces
  • 8 x 3.7 x 3.6 in

Why we chose it: We love the Mustang for its comfort and stability. Its curved shaft effectively stimulates the prostate and can provide steady stimulation to partners with G-spots. The Mustang is not abrasive or painful to the skin, and the squishiness feels soft and plush. You’ll also find that its shape and texture look and feel extremely life-like. And if you want to use it for strap-on play, the hard base and flexibility make it easy to do so.

14. Best butt plug

B-Vibe Snug Plug 2
4.8
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83
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
57.00

Made from ultra-soft silicone, the Snug Plug 2 is a 4.3-inch butt plug that enhances solo and partnered play. It's one step up from the Snug Plug 1 with added pressure, and it’s well-suited for beginners working towards more advanced anal play. It can also be worn discreetly, both in the bedroom and during everyday activities.

Benefits
Beginner-friendly
Can be worn discreetly
Comfortable short-term and extended wear
Drawbacks
No added vibration
The nuts and bolts
  • Hands-free use
  • Weighted plug
  • Waterproof
  • Body-safe silicone
  • Compatible with water-based lube
  • 114 grams
  • 4.1 x 1.2 in

Why we chose it: Because of its high-quality silicone material, Snug Plugs — no matter which size — can be used for extended or short-term wear. We love their neck flexibility and the design’s prioritization of comfort. They’re accessible for both newbies and advanced users, and you even get a cute bag to store the product. Before using any of the Snug Plugs, make sure to thoroughly read the directions as all versions come with information packs that offer guides for the product and anal play more generally. We recommend starting with a smaller size if you’re a beginner.

15. Best harness

Sportsheets Bare As You Dare Harness
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No items found.
$
25.00

Designed for the strap-on experience, Sportsheets’ Bare As You Dare Harness offers a customizable fit with three points of adjustment. Its nick-free metal O-ring is able to accommodate a slew of dildo options — particularly any size up to 1.5 inches in diameter — and it works just as well with clothes on. Bare As You Dare is made to be compact‍, and it makes for the perfect travel-friendly accessory.

Benefits
Accommodates hips up to 60 inches and can fit a range of dildo sizes
Travel-friendly
5-year warranty
Drawbacks
Doesn’t provide a lot of hip support
The nuts and bolts
  • Nylon webbing, plastic hardware, nickel-free metal hardware
  • 1.6 ounces
  • 5 x 1.5 x 4.5 in

Why we chose it: This harness is a must-have for anyone who loves strap-on play — its minimal design makes it easy and intuitive to put on, and unlike many other harnesses, there aren't any excess materials or complicated straps to worry about. Plus, it's super durable and adjustable, which makes it a sturdy but comfortable fit for a range of sizes.

16. Best vibrating cock ring for couples

We-Vibe Verge
4.5
(
126
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
135.00

We-Vibe’s Verge operates as a customizable, rechargeable vibrating cock ring that can be worn around the testicles and penis. Its flexible oblong shape offers both pressure and vibration that can stimulate the perineum and surrounding areas. It also has four levels of vibration and six patterns, which can be controlled through We-Vibe’s We-Connect app.

Benefits
Flexible ring to fit most penis sizes
Offers perineum stimulation
Customizable vibration patterns
Long-distance capable via app control
Comes with 2-year warranty
Drawbacks
It can be difficult to put on
Pricey
We-Connect app can be finicky
The nuts and bolts
  • Smart toy
  • 10 vibration modes
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe materials: silicone
  • Water-based lube compatible

Why we chose it: This cock ring is a great choice for partnered play because of its customizable and innovative design. The remote control feature allows for easy and discreet adjustments during play, so you and your partner can experiment with different vibration patterns and intensities, and the We-Connect app offers shared partnered control. Plus, if your partner has a vagina, this ring also provides added stimulation to the clit.

The bottom line

Every sex toy, from anal beads to prostate vibrators, comes with interesting features, but it all comes down to preference and what works for your body. If you don’t see something right for you on this list, explore our catalog of penis pleasures for even more options.

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