Eating pussy is so fantastic, there can’t possibly be a way to make it any better… right? Wrong. Lucky for you (and your partner!), there are many ways to amp it up while going down. Enter: sex toys! (Literally).

Incorporating a well-chosen sex toy into your pussy-eating routine is a great way to explore new sensations, dynamics, and thrills. Not only can toys help to stimulate parts of your partner’s anatomy that may be challenging to reach (or tiring for your fingers or tongue after a while), they can also free up your hands for all sorts of other fun play!

Communicating With Your Partner About Sex Toys

Are you open to toys? What kinds? It’s best to start with a conversation with your partner about toys rather than diving straight in. And it’s important to note that not everyone feels comfortable with sex toys. However, for the toy-curious among us, there are a few questions you’ll want to ask your partner before diving in.

1. Is g-spot stimulation pleasurable for them? Having g-spot stimulation while simultaneously getting head can be a wild ride, but only if it is something you actually enjoy! Some find the experience of g-spot manipulation to be too intense, and therefore uncomfortable.
   

Incorporating a well-chosen sex toy into your pussy eating routine is a great way to explore new sensations, dynamics, and thrills.

2. Similarly, is anal stimulation or penetration an option for them? Because the rectum is located away from the nerve endings of the clitoris, it can sometimes be an option for those who like penetration during oral sex, but find g-spot play to be too much. Remember, if you’re using anal toys, you’ll need to lubricate generously, since the rectum doesn’t lube up to protect itself the way the vagina does.
   

3. On that note… let’s talk lube! What’s good for your partner’s body? Are they into flavored lubes? Make sure you use a lube that is gentle on your partner’s delicate bits and doesn’t cause irritation.
   

Finally, not all lube works with all toys. If you’re using a silicone sex toy, use a water-based lubricant so your toy doesn’t melt—because remember, like dissolves like! If you’re using a non-silicone toy (made of glass, plastic, steel, etc), then silicone lube is totally fine.

Getting Up In Business: G-spot Toys

There are many, many quality toys on the market that allow you to play with your partner’s g-spot during oral sex. Some g-spot toys require you to hold them manually (and thrust, if you or your partner are into that), while other g-spot toys can be inserted and left to do their thing, freeing your hands up for anal play, nipple play, spanking, or whatever else you want to do! If you go the latter route, however, make sure to position your partner in a way that allows the toy to stay inserted—nothing is worse that being interrupted to deal with physics when your mind—and body—are being blown!

Getting Down To Business: Anal Toys

It’s natural to be a bit nervous about anal play and toys—it’s not much talked about, even among close friends! However, anal play can be a great way to enhance an already-pleasurable experience, as it allows you to stimulate your partner in multiple ways at once. If you and your partner are new to toys, starting with your fingers can be a great way to figure out what you like (and don’t like, which is equally important!).

There are many, many quality toys on the market that allow you to play with your partner’s g-spot during oral sex.

Anal toys such as butt plugs come in many different sizes, and you can even get sizing kits if you and your partner are looking to build up to using larger and larger plugs. You can use toys that vibrate internally, toys that stimulate both the rectum and the vagina at the same time, or dildos that allow you to thrust and penetrate your partner as you’re going down on them.

Pro-tip: For a basic anal toy that works well during oral sex, consider purchasing a butt plug that has a flat base, allowing the user to sit or lay down comfortably.

Good Ol’ Vibrators

Sex toys don’t have to be inserted in order to enhance the pussy-eating experience. Perhaps your partner’s favorite way of being penetrated is with your fingers. No problem! You can use a simple bullet vibe, a Magic Wand, or a soft ergonomic toy that conforms to their clitoris while manually stimulating the g-spot or the rectum.

Keep in mind that some vibrators have more intense speeds and frequencies than others. Ask your partner if they like a heavier, light, or varied touch—and then go toy shopping together!

Bon appetit!