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How to choose a sex toy, how to stimulate the clitoris, how to give a blowjob and more!

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What the Hell is This Poly I Keep Hearing About!?

In this intro to Consensual Non-Monogamy, Dr. Yoni will tell you about the types of alternative relationships out there, share some concepts of how they work, and will give you some tips to take into your monogamy that would enhance your relationship.

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We're In Love, But Our Sex Life Sucks

You love your partner but the sex isn't the best. Do you leave them? Talk to them? Masturbate more? Join this stream to learn about the different ways to explore chemistry and desire, increase communication and how to build better sex with your boo.

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Vibrator Shopping 101

Everything from clit vibes to G-spot vibes with Gigi Engle!

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Three Secrets To An Incredible Blowjob

The secrets have nothing to do with oral technique!

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The Sex Talk Your Mother Never Gave You: Using your Voice

An O.school fan said they wished their mother taught them how to use their voice and stand up for themself with problematic partners.

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The Queer Sex Ed You Never Got In School

What was your sex ed like in school?

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Sex Toy Shopping 101

Is the thought of buying sex toys overwhelming? SO MANY decisions to make! Online or in store. Vibrating or not. Insertable or not. Batteries or Rechargeable. Lube? Cleaning? The Vibrator Whisperer is here to make shopping for toys easy-peasy!

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Sex Ed For Parents

If we want to raise children into adults who respect their bodies and others' we need to start talking early. BUT HOW? What do you say? When do you start?

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Queer Women and Dating

How do we actually get dates with lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, gay or queer women?

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Prostate Play With Mistress Mona

Mistress Mona loves to talk about kink in an approachable, shame free environment. In this episode, we will be talking about the physical AND emotional side of prostate play!

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Masturbation As Self Care

Masturbation is normal, healthy, and can be a huge part of our self care! Join Afrosexology as they answer questions about masturbation, dispelling myths, and speaking truth.

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Masturbating A Prostate

On this stream we dive into prostate play and tools to help you self-stimulate for an incredible orgasm!

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Mapping Your G-Spot Pleasure

The G-spot is infinitely interesting. Learn everything you need to know from anatomy to the best toys with Gigi Engle. LOL, where the fuck is it? What does a G-spot orgasm feel like? Which toys are best? Is squirting pee or what?

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Making a Pleasure Playdate

From Hide and Go Freak to Role Play, come chill with Afrosexology and explore sexy, playful games to add to your sex life!

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Intro To Temperature Play

Join Micki for some Hot Tips for Cool Orgasms and other ways to chill with your lover using temperature play!

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Impact Play With Mistress Mona

Mistress Mona loves to talk about kink in an approachable, shame free environment. In this episode, we will be talking about impact play! Spanking, cropping, flogging and much more!

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How To Put On A Masturbation Show

As amazing as your partner might be at sexually satisfying you, no one knows your body like you do. Often, masturbating is something we do in private, but this act of pleasuring yourself can be an intimate experience to share.

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Let's Talk Blowjob Tips

If you want to give the best blowjob ever, here are a few things you might want to know.

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How Not To Eat Pussy

Great technique is important for great oral sex. But knowing what NOT to do is just as important in order to be the best at eating pussy! Here’s what to avoid.

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How To Give Head

If you're trying to up your head game, check out this tip from Andrea and Pleasure Pro Luna Matatas

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Get More Out Of Jerking Off

What's more embarrassing about taking a class on jerking off? Denying yourself the opportunity to have better orgasms. Learn how to get that hot rod HOTTER!

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Gags With Mistress Mona

Mistress Mona loves to talk about kink in an approachable, shame free environment. In this episode, we will be talking about gags! How to use safe words when you can’t talk, which gags work best in different situations, WHY would I want to try a gag?

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Fingering 101

Finesse your fingering skills in this live stream! Good finger sex is super hot. Get the facts on vulva anatomy and how to explore the sweet spots with your fingers and guide your partners there. You'll get tips on technique, communication and safety.

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F*ck Lube Shame! Why You Need It

F*ck lube shame—lube is the actual BEST. Sex educator Jess tells you why it's awesomesauce, which brands and formulas to buy and how to use it.

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Pussy-Eating 101: The Best Tips And Tricks

Great oral sex requires great oral technique. Here are our top tips for licking pussy, eating pussy, and producing pussy pleasure.

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Did I Cum?

Not all sex has to focus on orgasms as the end goal, but lots of us aren't sure what an orgasm feels like. Join this livestream to learn what your body does during orgasm, signs of orgasm and the different ways your to build bigger, better orgasms.

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Dating While Disabled

Dating is tough. If you identify as outside of mainstream beauty and romance standards then you might have a unique perspective on the dating world. Tune in with Matchmaker Claire AH to ask her anything and get tips for dating while disabled.

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Dating For Introverts

So, you're single, ready to mingle and introverted. How do you put yourself out there when you're single and introverted? Q will share tips with you around connecting and letting someone know you’re interested in them.

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Buttstravaganza

All about that booty. Get tips on seducing the butt, hygiene, choosing anal play toys and how to talk about anal sex with your partners!

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Building Sexual Confidence

Q Wilson shares with you some tips he learned on his journey towards becoming a more sexually confident person.

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Become A Dirty Talk Master!

Helping you find the words to maximise hot and minimise awkward. O.school’s resident cunninglinguists Kate and Louise will show you how to master your dirty talk game.

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Be A Better Kisser

Kissing is the best. And it can get even better. Join Dr. Yoni and his kissing coach partner as they talk all about smooching.

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Are You Giving Friends The Best Sex & Dating Advice?

Get wise before you advise! LexxieLex has some critical ideas on how to be the most thoughtful, sex-positive and validating friend. We'll respond to audience submitted questions and take yours live from our anonymous chat space.

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Approaching Sex With A Trans Person

Join kiwi sex educator Louise Bourchier for conversations about sex, pleasure, health and relationships with a touch of international flavour.

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Approaching Sex After Birth

Our bodies and sex lives change after childbirth. Pleasure Professional Lucia Pavone will break down the in's and out's of sex after birth and address anxieties about getting back into the sheets.

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All You Need To Know About Contraceptives

It's all about contraceptives! The pros, cons and how-tos. Review the options available and how they affect your sex life. Featuring guest, Jenna Perkins, NP

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How-To Facts: Did You Know?

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How to use a cockring: put on when semi-erect, position at the base of the penis, remove after 10 min.

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How to do Kegel exercises: clench pelvic floor muscles, hold for a moment, release and relax muscles. Repeat.

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How to use lube: put a little on your hand, apply to genitals or toys, reapply as much as you like for slippery fun.

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How to clean a sex toy: soap and water is usually fine, or buy a toy cleaner. You can even boil solid silicone toys.

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How to eat pussy: Smile, start slow, focus on the clit, maintain constant rhythm and pressure when nearing climax.

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How to use a vibrator: turn on a low setting, place against your sexy bits, turn up and move around as desired.

How-To (noun)

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A guide, or set of instructions on how to do something. Sex how-to guides help you expand your practical sexual skills. Knowing how to do something - whether it’s using a sex toy, finding your clit, or giving oral sex - boosts sexual confidence and gives you more options in the bedroom.

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