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A guide, or set of instructions on how to do something. Sex how-to guides help you expand your practical sexual skills. Knowing how to do something - whether it’s using a sex toy, finding your clit, or giving oral sex - boosts sexual confidence and gives you more options in the bedroom.

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How to Talk to Your Teen About Sexting

If you’re a parent of teens—or future teens—you may have heard that sexting is something that you should be worried about. But how common is sexting among teens, really? Is it dangerous? What can you do to help keep your kids safe? Read on for some tips on how to initiate a thoughtful conversation with your teen about sexting.

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How To Avoid Getting Scammed On Dating Apps

Just knowing what to look out for can keep you protected on the apps.

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How To Have A Threesome

Follow these ten tips to have a sexy, drama-free threesome experience.

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Kama Sutra Positions To Make Sex A Mindful Practice

‍Exploring these sex positions can help you broaden your horizons and help you connect with a partner.

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How To Do Wet And Messy Play

If lots of lube, squirting, and other kinds of messy sex gets you going, here’s the tea on this fetish.

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How Can You Be A Feminist As A Submissive?

If you are a feminist interested in playing a submissive role, you might wonder if this will conflict with your ideals. We’re here to tell you — it doesn’t have to.

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11 Tips To Orgasm From Penetration Alone

A hands-free orgasm from penetration alone may feel elusive. But there are ways to do it.

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Rope Play: What Is It And How To Do It Safely

Spice up your sex life with something a little “knotty.”

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The Best Sex Positions To Try If Sex Is Painful

If sex is painful for you, try these positions for some relief.

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Tips To Have Your First Orgasm After Years Of Trying

You’re probably tired of being told to “just relax.”

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Boring Sex? What To Do If You've Fallen Into A Routine

If sex is a snooze, try these tips to reignite your spark.

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How To Keep Sex Interesting If You Live Apart

Here are a few tips to keep things hot and fresh if you’re away from your boo.

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Why Your Libido May Have Decreased - And How To Get It Back

If you’ve noticed your sex drive has declined, here are a few tips to get it back on track.

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How To Have Phone Sex Without Feeling Weird About It

Phone sex can be a bit awkward at first. But with a little practice, you’ll be a pro in a no time.

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How To Use A Dildo: A Beginner's Guide

The first step is finding the right kind of dildo for you.

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7 Blowjob Tips For Those Giving Head Later In Life

Blowjobs can be amazing at any stage of life.

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What Is Spooning And How Exactly Is It Done?

You’ve heard the term, but do you know what “spooning” actually is? Let’s break it down.

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How To Give A Footjob

These tips can help you give a hot fj.

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How Do You Kiss Someone For The First Time?

There are a few things you can do to prepare for your first smooch.

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12 Sex Games That Just Require A Little Bit Of Creativity

These games can help build intimacy in unexpected ways.

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How To Date During Coronavirus

There are still ways to date safely and responsibly.

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How To Anal Douche

Learning how to douche safely can make butt play more fun.

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Signs Your Partner Wants More Intimacy From You

Intimacy has a lot of definitions. This is what it looks like for me.

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Car Sex Positions That Are Actually Comfortable (And Feel Awesome)

Car sex gets a bad rap. Here are some ways to make it way more comfortable and enjoyable — for anyone and everyone.

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32 Other Ways To Sext “I’m So Horny” Without Using Those Three Words

Need some inspo? We’re here to help you with all your horniness expression needs!

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How to Give a Hickey: Unique and Fun Ways

Thought you left hickies in high school? They’re not just for teens! Next time you’re making out, give your partner a (consensual) love bite.

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11 Ways To Get Horny, Fast

Brain in the mood, but body isn’t there yet? Here are some tips to get those gears goin’.

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How To Play With Bigger Breasts

Want to give as well as receive the most pleasure possible when playing with larger breasts? Here are some dos and don’ts to get you started.

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Las Mejores Técnicas De Masturbación Para Lograr El Orgasmo Clitoriano

En este artículo se explica cómo masturbarse mejor, ya sea con tu vibrador probado y verdadero o explorando una nueva técnica de masturbación!

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5 Mitos Sobre El Sexo Por Primera Vez

Hoy en dia hay mucha charla sobre lo que el sexo por primera vez “debería” o “no debería” ser. Esta es la realidad:

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Why It’s So Important For LGBTQ+ Youth To Have An Adult Ally In Their Lives

When LGBTQ+ children and teens feel supported, it can make a world of difference for them. It could literally save their lives.

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The Best Lessons You Can Learn About Kissing from Reddit, for International Kissing Day

Need smooching pointers? Want to read a funny first-kiss story? These Reddit confessions have it all.

Sex Ed

Planned Parenthood’s ‘In Case You’re Curious’ Is the Sex Ed Book We All Deserve

Because there is no such thing as a “stupid question” when it comes to sex.

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How to Have Lesbian or Vulva-on-Vulva Sex

If it’s your first time (or if you just want some tips), you’re in the right place to learn how to have awesome lesbian or vulva/vulva sex.

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54 Sexting Ideas You Wouldn't Have Thought Of

Feeling uninspired with your sexts? Here are some out-of-the-box ideas you can use to get you and your partner in the mood.

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How To Respectfully Take A Dick Pic

As long as it’s consensual, there’s no wrong way to send a dick pic but there are ways to enhance it. ;)

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Prostate Orgasms: What Are They And How Can I Have One?

Strap-in (or strap -on) for a journey through the ins and outs of prostate play and prostate orgasms.

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The Basics Of Using Dating Apps

New to Tinder? Trying dating apps for the first time? Explore the basics of swiping, messaging, and meeting up.

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How To Tell Your Partner You’ve Changed Your Mind: Withdrawing Consent

So you thought you were up to get down, but now you’re not feeling it… It’s ok to change your mind, here’s how to communicate it.

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Tips For Negotiating Condom Use

How to talk about using a condom. What to say when you want to use protection. Ways to maximize pleasure when practicing safer sex.

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Top 10 Things You Need To Know About Consent

Your go-to guide for a quick brush up on sexual consent, what consent is and isn’t, and how to practice it.

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Is It A Date Or A Friend Hangout?

Have you ever wondered: are we on a date? Did they just invite me on a date? Or are we just hanging out as friends? It’s not always clear, read on for tips to figure out where things are at.

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Sensual Sex: How To Use All Your Senses In The Bedroom

Bring more sensuality into your bedroom. Explore ways to engage all your senses in sex and erotic play.

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How To Give An Erotic Massage

Do you want to wind down and get in the mood for sexy times? How about a sensual massage to calm the mind and arouse the body.

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The Best Blowjob Positions and What They Look Like

Try these four popular blowjob positions for delicious oral pleasure. The classic kneeling position? The 69? What’s your favourite BJ style?

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Best Positions For Eating Pussy

Try these four popular pussy eating positions for maximum oral pleasure. Have you tried “The Ride”? Why not add a vibrator? What’s your favourite way to go down?

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How To Deal With Rejection

Getting turned down is never easy, but we all get a “No” sometime in our lives. Here are some strategies to weather the storm of rejection.

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5 Steps To Smart, Safe, and Sexy Hookups

Use this as your guide to satisfying dating and safer, casual sex.

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What Is A Rim Job?

What is rimming? Why are people into tongue-on-ass play? Read on to answer your questions and to learn how to give a good rim job.

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9 Tips For First Time Anal

When you’re trying anal sex for the first time you want it to be as smooth and pleasuable as possible. Here’s how to get yourself ready for butt stuff.

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How to Give the Best Handjob, Ever

Explore the best handjob techniques for ultimate penis pleasure. Here’s how to get the right grip, rhythm, and motion!

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How To Prepare For Anal Sex

Want to try anal sex? Check out these suggestions for how to prepare for anal play. Here are some tips for how to bring it up with your partner, how to clean, and techniques for pleasure.

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How To Have Stronger Orgasms

Make your ‘Big O’ bigger! Get the orgasm you want, need, and deserve using these tried and true strategies to enhance your (or your partner’s) climax.

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How To Pleasure The Balls During A Blowjob

Wondering what to do with the balls? Enhance blowjobs with scrotum stimulation. Try these mouth, hand and toy techniques for tingling testicle pleasure.

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How To Use A Vibrator

New to sex toys and looking for ideas? Love your vibrator and want to mix things up? Try these techniques to maximize pleasure and orgasm, and to get the best buzz out of your toy.

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Blowjob Tips For Smaller Penises

What are the best blowjob techniques when your partner’s penis is on the smaller size? Try these tips and tricks for your sexual confidence and your partner’s pleasure.

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Blowjob Tips For Bigger Penises

When your partner is well endowed fitting their penis in your mouth might be challenging, let alone giving great head! Read on for BJ hacks to give an awesome blowjob when there’s lots to work with.

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Fingering Techniques

Figuring out how to give pussy pleasure with fingers can be trickier than it sounds! Here are the top fingering techniques to bring your partner to clitoral orgasm.

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9 Pussy Massage Techniques

A good vaginal massage can help boost pleasure, for a partner or for yourself.

Marriage & Divorce

How To Keep The Romance Alive With Your Long-Term Partner

It’s easy to lose that spark when you’ve been together for a long time—happily there are ways to get that lovin’ feeling back.

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How To Talk About Consent With A Hookup Partner

How do you ask for consent? Here’s exactly what you need to know before you dive head first into your next hook-up.

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How Do I Know When I’m Ready To Have Sex For The First Time?

The decision to have sex for the first time can be a big one. Here are some pointers to help you figure out if you’re ready.

Birth Control

How To Choose A Condom

Internal condoms or external? Latex or lambskin? Magnum? Glow-in-the-dark? Lubricated? Selecting the right condom for you can be overwhelming. Consider this your go-to guide

Sensuality & Arousal

Nipple Pleasure And Nipple Orgasms

Free the nipple for sure, but don’t neglect it! Nipples can be chock-full of sexy feels—here’s how to get started.

Oral Sex

Sex Toys To Enhance Blowjobs

Adding sex toys to your BJ repertoire can juice up your sex, not to mention taking some of the “work” out of the “job”.

Dating & Hookups

The Dos And Don’ts Of Bi-curious Online Dating

So you think you might be Bi! Welcome fam, check out these tips for navigating your maiden voyage into the queer Tinder-sphere.

Kink & BDSM

What Is Sensation Play?

Sensation play harnesses the power of the senses to heighten sexual pleasure. Learn more about it to discover new ways to get turned on!

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Tips For Stimulating Your Clit To Orgasm

The clit is a powerhouse of sexual pleasure, but sometimes stimulating it isn’t so straightforward. Here’s how to handle any issue standing between you and your orgasm.

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The Basics Of Tinder Messaging

How should you start a conversation with your new match on Tinder? And what if the conversation slows down? Fear not! Answers to all your Tinder messaging questions are here.

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How To Build Your Tinder Profile

Creating a Tinder profile can be stressful. But with these suggestions, it gets a little easier.

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What To Say When Your Friend Comes Out To You

Being a supportive friend doesn’t always come with a handbook—but this time it does.

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Make Giving Head Hot For You!

Enjoy giving blowjobs as much as your partner likes receiving them.

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Tips For Managing Premature Ejaculation

If you struggle with premature ejaculation, here are some strategies you can use to manage it.

Pelvic Floor

How To Do Kegels

Learning how to do this one powerful exercise will support a healthy pelvic floor, promote proper bladder and bowel functioning—and strengthen your orgasms!

Pelvic Floor

How To Relax And Stretch Your Pelvic Floor

These three pelvic floor exercises will not only promote sexual, bladder, and bowel health, but also help strengthen your orgasms!

Dating & Hookups

How To Tinder In A Gender-Diverse World

So you matched with a trans cutie on Tinder—awesome! Here’s everything you need to know about gender identity and how to engage with them respectfully.

Birth Control

What Birth Control Is Best For Me?

As Janelle Monae put it, I live my life on birth control. But… which one? Here’s how to figure it out!

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How To Stimulate The Clit

Master these four classic techniques to stimulate the clit, learn what feels best, and maximize your chance of orgasm.

Orgasm

How To Orgasm

Orgasm takes time and practice. Learn how here.

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How To Introduce Sex Toys To Your Partner

Wanna bring a sex toy into the bedroom, but not sure if your partner’s interested? Here’s how to start that conversation.

Oral Sex

Going Down: What Not To Do!

You want oral sex moves that will curl your partner’s toes, not kill their buzz. So, what should you avoid? Read on for tips of what not to do.

Healing From Trauma

How To Talk About A Past Sexual Assault With Your Partner

Disclosing a past sexual trauma can be an emotional and draining event. Here’s how to gear up for it—and take care of yourself afterward.

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Top 10 Tips For Having An Orgasm

There’s no one way to orgasm. Try these tips for a better “oOoOh!”

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How To Flirt

Get better at flirting with these five steps.

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How To Talk Dirty

Does the idea of talking dirty in bed make you want to curl up into the fetal position? There’s no need! Here are some basics to get you started.

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How To Do Bondage For Beginners

Are you interested in tying up your lover? Read on for some tantalizing tips on how to bring a little bondage into your bedroom.

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How To Buy A Sex Toy

How to choose a sex toy that’s right for you, and other pro-tips for first-time sex toy buyers.

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How To Make Out

How to up your kissing game, and leave your partner wanting more!

Cock

Penis Parts And Pleasure

Learn which parts of the penis can be pleasured most during sexy time.

Masturbation

Best Masturbation Techniques For Clitoral Orgasm

Here’s how to masturbate better, whether with your tried-and-true vibrator or by exploring a new masturbation technique!

Oral Sex

The Art Of Eating Pussy

Eat pussy like you’d eat a gourmet meal to maximize pleasure for you and your lover.

Communication

I Want Sex! How To Get The Pleasure You Desire

So you’re interested in having sex, but aren’t sure how to communicate what you want? These pro-tips will help.

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Home For The Holidays

Are you worried about heading home for the holidays? Do you want to avoid those cringeworthy conversations with your relatives? We have some survival strategies.

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How To Use Lube

Lubricant is one of the greatest additions you can make to your sex life. Get the low-down on lube and how to decide which is the best lube for you.

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How To Find Your Threesome Online

Arranging your first threesome can be confusing and stressful—but less so with these strategies! Learn how to channel the power of the internet into bedroom fun.

Healing From Trauma

How To Support Sexual Assault Survivors

When a friend tells you that they've been assaulted, there are some important dos and don'ts to keep in mind.

Conversations

What Everyone Needs To Know About Sexual Consent

Consent is a vital part of engaging in any kind of sexual activity. It is an agreement you enter into every single time you want to have sex.

First Time Sex

What To Know About Having Sex For The First Time

There's a lot of pressure on first-time sex. But there are only a few things that really matter when you’re thinking about exploring your sexuality with another person.

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How To Give The Best Blowjob, Ever

While there’s no one way to give a top-tier blowjob, there are some tips to help make the experience as pleasurable as possible—for both giver and receiver.

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Did you know the clitoris is the only organ in the human body that’s only purpose is pleasure? This part of the genitals may look small, but it can give lots of sensation.

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Vibrators come in a stunning variety of shapes, sizes, and colors. There are as many toys as there are tastes, so it’s important to find the sex toy that vibes with you.

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